Dating advice - Safety Tips
Although going on a date and meeting a potential love match can be an exciting
experience it should never be forgotten that you are meeting someone you do not
really know other than from the details that they have given you.
Irrespective of your sex you should always bear in mind that there is the
possibility that it could turn into an uncomfortable, or even dangerous, and
potentially life threatening experience. That is not to say you should be paranoid,
but taking some simple precautions will prevent you from suddenly finding yourself
in a difficult situation from which you cannot escape.
Be careful with your personal details
You would not offer your address and bank details to some stranger you just met
in the street. Similarly you should be cautious of giving out your address and
telephone details to anyone you have chatted to or met online. If your date
turns out to be less than an ideal match you may find it difficult to extricate
yourself if they are able to phone, text, email or turn up unexpectedly on your
doorstep. Although this kind of intense obsessive behaviour is unlikely, and
thankfully uncommon, it does happen. By being sensible and cautious giving out
your details then you can avoid putting yourself in a difficult situation.
Meet in a public place
It should go without saying that when meeting someone you do not know for the
first time, you should always meet in a public place like a bar or restaurant,
where there are other people present, and where you can make a get away or call
on the assistance of others if it becomes imperative to do so. Never arrange to meet
someone you do not know at their home.
Let someone know where you are
Be sure to let someone else know of your plans, who you are meeting, and where.
Arrange to give them a call once your date is over, to let them know that you are
safe, and so that they can raise the alert if required.
Ensure you have means of getting home independently
If your date turns uncomfortable or nasty do you have the means to get home
safely on your own? Never put yourself in a situation where you are dependent on
your date to pick you up and drop you off as you could find yourself stranded or
worse. Be sure you have enough for a taxi home or know where you can catch
public transport. You might even consider having a friend or family member on
standby to meet and take you home if necessary.
If the worst should happen...
If the very worst should happen and you find yourself faced with an aggressive
date, or you become nervous or anxious about your date, then have no hesitation
in making your excuses and getting away as soon as possible. Do not worry about
appearing rude - you can make your excuses later if necessary. The important
thing is to get yourself away from the situation as soon as possible.